Nigerian (Yoruba) Traditional wedding attire.
Bride wears Iro and Buba
Groom wears an Agbada
Yes to this!
I concur.
(Source: black-male-problems)
Hoe Hoe Hoe
Pictorial example of how you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. This will probably be the one and only time you hear me say this but “unbutton your blouse, tie it in a knot & take 30” off of your skirt. The heels can stay.” I don’t like mixed hoe messages. You initially portray a mute pin-up video hoe and then you look like a knock off racial ambiguous Michelle Obama? I am confused.

(Source: daflyguyz)
In Pursuit of Adequacy: I'm trying REAL hard not to cuss out some folks
so i’m not gonna read the threads on racial posts because many white folks are showin their asses. This is how it goes every time…..
POC: ah man how come there aren’t any minorities in this film/tv/book/any other form of media?
Whole bunch of white folks: OMG! why are…
COLOUR-BLIND RACISM: The Four Frames
“Eduardo Bonilla-Silva asked samples of White Americans, most of them born between 1940 and 1980, questions about race issues. He noticed that at least half of them used each of the following four frames:
- abstract liberalism – the key word here is “abstract”. Unlike Jim Crow racists, most whites now agree that all Americans, regardless of race, should have equal rights and equal opportunities. But it is just lip service. When asked about government policies that could bring about such equality, like affirmative action or busing, most whites will find one reason or another to oppose them and fail to offer any other solid measure. Freedom, democracy and equality are not things to be achieved but just empty words to dress up the way things are in America – and to dress up the racism of white people.
- minimization of racism – Most whites believe there is still discrimination against blacks, but it is not as bad as it used to be and it is no longer the main thing holding blacks back. Instead it is their culture:
- cultural racism – Unlike Jim Crow racists, most whites no longer believe that there is anything wrong with blacks biologically. Instead it is cultural: mostly bad families, bad values and a bad work ethic. Blaming the victim. Some note that blacks use racism as an excuse and expect handouts.
- naturalization of racism – racist practices in society, like highly segregated schools and neighbourhoods and low rates of interracial marriage, are seen as “natural”, as a part of human nature – not as the outcome of white racism. That means it is no one’s fault, that there is little that can be done to change it.
The frames are mixed and matched as required by the argument at hand. The frames help to support each other. For example, minimizing racism makes an abstract liberalism seem more acceptable. The frames can be used in a straightforward way (“Blacks are lazy”) or more subtly (“It is hard being a single mother”).
Whites think they are a better judge of racism than blacks, particularly since blacks tend to imagine racism when it is not there.
The truth is blacks imagine little. Discrimination in hiring, housing and education has been well documented. The government should take forceful action to end it as it goes against the American value of equal opportunity for all regardless of race.
Yet almost no white person talks like that. Instead they use the frames to avoid saying anything like that. At best they will admit to discrimination but then discount its effects. Or they will say they believe in equality of opportunity but then find reasons to oppose any policy with the teeth to achieve it.”
Purple Perception
‘I Love You Porgy’ bellows in my background as I subconsciously summons Nina’s spirit this “holiday”. As Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany’s would say ‘I have a case of the reds’, when you are bothered yet you can’t put your finger on why. So my Nina state of mind (the blues) combined with Holly’s case of the reds, I now have what I call “purple perception”. I am slightly angry or frustrated with a twinge of the blues. Cyber Christmas signs of endearment, or text, will not be entertained. I will copy and paste “you too” with a static colon and right parenthesis. There, I smiled. What I would not give to be sipping on sorrel right about now brukin owt meh duttiest wine to a soca Christmas but I guess I will settle for Africa in three days. At least in Ethiopia I will get to celebrate Christmas again…the right way.


